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millenium girl
06-11-2009, 12:23 AM
Sex drive fizzles after a woman lands her man

If you're considering marrying a woman mainly because she's a maniac in bed, don't do it because it won't last.

German scientists found that sexual desire wanes quickly after marriage in women, but stays constant in men. Women continue to need closeness and tenderness, but want less and less sex as the marriage progresses. In women, sex drive starts to fizzle as soon as they land a man.

Gender differences in sex drive evolved over thousands of years. Men needed a high sex drive to keep other males away from their mates. Women needed strong social bonds with their husbands to provide security for the family.

After four years of marriage, more than 50 percent of women said they didn't want sex regularly. Ninety percent of women, but only 25 percent of men, valued tenderness after more than five years of marriage. Women's sex drive improved when they lived away from their husbands. The researchers concluded that evolution dictated that men and women have different motivations for sex.

(Journal Human Nature)

buffalo
06-11-2009, 09:42 AM
Oh, that is just stupid. :rolleyes:

Augerdog42
06-12-2009, 07:58 PM
Oh, that is just stupid. :rolleyes:

But oh so true!

Gator
06-12-2009, 08:49 PM
You got that right.

Buck Wild
06-12-2009, 09:01 PM
I disagree my wife and i have sex more now than we did after 5 yrs of bein married we goin on 13 yrs in august. At first its everyday then it fades off but we are more like teenagers now she is 38 and i am 37. Matter of fact we did it on the bach porch today in broad daylight with the neighbors cookin on the grill. :cool: :tongue4

buffalo
06-12-2009, 11:22 PM
But oh so true!

Not for all women! :rolleyes:

Big B
06-13-2009, 07:31 AM
I disagree my wife and i have sex more now than we did after 5 yrs of bein married we goin on 13 yrs in august. At first its everyday then it fades off but we are more like teenagers now she is 38 and i am 37. Matter of fact we did it on the bach porch today in broad daylight with the neighbors cookin on the grill. :cool: :tongue4

and where were the kids Mr. Buck? :eek:

Buck Wild
06-13-2009, 08:59 AM
and where were the kids Mr. Buck? :eek:

camp :D

Rhiannon
06-15-2009, 07:54 AM
My parents have are 41 and 45 and they have been together for about 23 yrs and still do it. So for some people it fades but others keep on going :D

Shasta
06-15-2009, 10:06 AM
I think it depends on the people. I can see it happening if they lose attraction to eachother
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GRIM
06-15-2009, 11:30 AM
I disagree my wife and i have sex more now than we did after 5 yrs of bein married we goin on 13 yrs in august. At first its everyday then it fades off but we are more like teenagers now she is 38 and i am 37. Matter of fact we did it on the bach porch today in broad daylight with the neighbors cookin on the grill. :cool: :tongue4
Bet it took the time to flip one burger :D

Big B
06-15-2009, 03:34 PM
either ^bump last 2 posts

Buck Wild
06-15-2009, 05:17 PM
Bet it took the time to flip one burger :D

I think he burnt the burgers watchin

Big B
06-15-2009, 10:03 PM
I think he burnt the burgers watchin

...so he ended up going to 5 Guys right? :D